Where to begin. I laughed, I cried, I smiled. Sandy has an incredible way of writing. I actually could feel her emotions. I am a mother of 2 grown sons myself. There were times I had to put the book down and have a good cry, I could feel her hurt. And to know her personally, I hurt for her and her family even more. As a parent this is the exact thing we fear most. Losing our children before we pass, it’s unnatural. Then never-ending question of, why me? I never knew Tyler but everytime I see Monarch Butterflies now, I smile and think of his wonderful beautiful mom. Sandy and Joe, enjoy your retirement.